Soulmates and Twin Flames

I want to share that, in my current experience, the term feels irrelevant. It doesn’t have a positive or negative impact on my relationships, nor on the way I connect with others.

I prefer to be guided by whether a relationship contributes to my highest good or not, and to act accordingly, rather than basing decisions on some magical belief. I say this because, generally speaking, these terms have come to dictate the way many people —myself included— navigate their relationships.

For example, when someone is labeled a soulmate or twin flame, there's an immediate positive connotation that can cloud judgment, justify abuse, or sustain toxic dynamics. It can even delay necessary decisions, such as walking away from a relationship —be it familial, friendly, or romantic— that no longer resonates.

Personally, I see it as magical thinking. However, I do acknowledge that some relationships feel deeper or more meaningful than others. And while I might describe them that way, there are also people in my life who, though not my closest friends, still hold an important place in my heart.

From a spiritual perspective, if we all come from the same source —and if you believe in reincarnation— it would be more logical to think that we are all, in some way, soulmates or twin flames. We come from a shared consciousness and live different experiences that require different levels of depth in our connections. We find each other in different corners of the universe.

A few years ago, I used to use those terms to describe relationships I found deep and meaningful. Today, I see it differently: the love I’ve felt for others doesn’t vanish or disappear —it simply changes the nature of the relationship. The affection remains.

In my work as a medium, I’ve used these terms when necessary for context and for the message to be understood by the person receiving it. In those cases, the message doesn’t come from me, but from the being I’m channeling. They choose what they want to communicate, even if it goes beyond my own beliefs or experiences. Personally, if I ever use the term, it’s to describe a relationship that has had —or still has— great importance. But in the end, I believe everything comes down to love, more than to the concept.

From an esoteric and metaphysical perspective, I can’t say for sure whether these terms exist as such. What I do know is that we all come from love —and that’s what I want to hold on to.

If a relationship loses its foundation of respect or stops being beneficial for me —even if it was once magical and meaningful— that won’t determine my decision to move forward and seek a more fulfilling present.

Finally, whether or not you consider someone your soulmate and deeply believe in it, never stop taking care of your well-being and that of others. That’s the most important thing I want to convey.

Forget whether the relationship is karmic, special, or whatever label you might give it. Look at your relationships from a calmer, more grounded place —for your own good. Remember that we all come from the same place, and love doesn’t end —it transforms. Sometimes, that means loving from afar, or under different conditions.

Either everyone is your soulmate, or no one is.

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